The Male Gaze

[Jalopes]

this whole topic is one giant overreaction (on both sides)

No it isn't.

Your side is saying stuff, and so is ours in response. When something that you are saying is wrong, we say something about it.

This is a debate.

I don't have a side really, I did when me and you were debating (which was fine) but now it's kind of escalated to the point where people don't understand each other (and as such, people on caruso's side are being seen as sexists when they aren't)